Sunday, August 23, 2009

Wedding Dress

Traditional Rhyme

Married in white, you have chosen alright.
Married in green, ashamed to be seen.
Married in red, You will wish yourself dead.
Married in blue, you will always be true
Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow.
Married in black, you will wish yourself back.
Married in pink, of you he'll think.



When to marry




Traditional Rhyme





Marry when the year is new, always loving, always true,
When February Birds do mate, you may wed or dread your fate
If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know
Marry in April when you can, joy for maiden and for man,
Marry in the month of May, you will surely rue the day,
Marry when June roses blow, over land and sea you'll go,
They who in July do wed, must labour always for their bread,
Whoever wed in August be, many a change are sure to see,
Marry in September's shine, your living will be rich and fine,
If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry,
If you wed in bleak November, only Joy will, remember,
When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last.


Source: http://www.wedding-garter.com/traditions.htm#21


Wedding custom:- good luck for bride & groom (II)


Something Old

  • A relative's wedding gown or using a piece of the fabric to sew into your own gown or wrap the bridal bouquet
  • A family heirloom: jewelry, veil, headpiece, handkerchief
  • A piece of fabric from an old childhood doll or article of clothing, either sewn into your gown or used as a wrap for your bouquet.
  • A locket with photos of your parents or grandparents.

Something New

  • New shoes
  • New jewelry
  • You might consider your "something new" your dress, if purchased new.
  • New lingerie or garter

Something Borrowed

  • Often, this is jewelry belonging to someone close to you: earrings, a watch, pearls, etc.
  • A veil or headpiece
  • A brooch or hair comb
  • A purse

Something Blue

  • Monogram in blue thread sewn into wedding dress
  • Blue shoes
  • Blue underwear or lingerie garter
  • Blue crinoline
  • Blue nail polish
  • Jewelry accents in blue: earrings, rings, bracelets, anklet, toe rings, necklaces containing sapphires, topaz, aquamarine, Swarovski crystals, etc.
  • Blue bouquet accents: ribbon wrap, brooches, cameos, lockets
  • Blue sash for wedding gown
  • Blue embroidery on wedding gown
  • Blue hair accessories: hair clips/barrettes, headband, etc.
  • Blue handkerchief (for tears of joy) or handkerchief with blue monogram/embroidery
  • Blue rhinestones glued to bottom of wedding shoes in shape of initials
  • A Blue Temporary Tattoo - idotattoos.com

Wedding custom:- good luck for bride & groom (I)


Something old, something new
Something borrowed, something blue
And a silver sixpence in her shoe.





This is a good luck saying which dates back to the Victorian era and many brides will try and ensure that they have something of each in their wedding outfit.


Something Old is meant to represent the link with the bride's own family and the past particularly mother or grandmother or even most distant relations. Something old is symbolic of continuity. To symbolise this link brides may choose to wear a piece of antique family jewellery which belonged to the relative. Alternatatively they may select something from the mother's or grandmother's wedding gown. Other things that may be chosen include a handkerchief, a scarf or a piece of lace.


Something New represents good luck and success and the brides hopes for a bright future in her new married life. The wedding gown is often chosen as the new item but it could be anything that is purchased new for the wedding such as the wedding flowers or the wedding rings. Wearing a new item on your wedding day conveys the message that you and your husband are creating a new union that will endure forever.


Something Borrowed is to represent to the bride that friends and family will be there for her on the special day and in the future when help is needed. "Borrowing" is especially important, since it has to come from a happily married woman, thereby lending the bride some of her own marital happiness to carry into the new marriage. Anything can be borrowed but it must be returned afterwards. Another way to incorporate a borrowed item into your wedding day attire is to borrow a friend’s piece of jewellery. If you have a close friend who has worn the same necklace for as long as you have known her, you might consider borrowing this particular necklace for your wedding day as a reminder of your friendship. Perhaps she wore the necklace on her own wedding day.


Something Blue in ancient times is the symbol of faithfulness, purity and loyalty. Often a blue item is the garter and in olden times the couple wore blue bands on the border of their wedding attire to denote, love, modesty and fidelity. Another way to wear something blue is to include a blue flower in your headdress or theme your wedding flowers in blue.


Brides have been honoring the tradition of wearing an old, a new, a borrowed and a blue item during their wedding for centuries. Although wearing these items is supposed to symbolise good luck for the bride, they are also just a fun tradition that gives the bride an opportunity to express her admiration for a few special people in her life on her special day.


A Silver Sixpence. A sixpence was a silver coin worth six pennies in England between 1551 and 1967. It was placed in the bride’s shoe to attract wealth to her new marriage. This symbolic act may have originated with the Scottish custom of a groom putting a silver coin under his foot for luck. To achieve the best chance of financial security, a bride should put the coin in her left shoe. In modern times, a penny or other coin is often used in place of the sixpence, but there are companies that sell special keepsake sixpence coins for the occasion.

http://www.somethingoldsomethingnew.co.uk/
http://weddingstyle.suite101.com/article.cfm/old_new_borrowed_and_blue
http://www.ehow.com/how_2242264_something-borrowed-something-blue-bride.html
http://www.gagirl.com/wedding/wedding2.html
http://www.cyprusconfetti.com/my_traditions/whyyy.php
http://www.jewelrybyrhonda.com/webpages/weddingtraditions.htm



Sunday, August 9, 2009

"Midlife Crisis"


For a moment or for many moments, I started to wonder what am I actually good at? That is why, I always fail in the test of "Tell me your strengths".

Social work was not at all my interest. It was by a sheer moment of luck or a moment of folly that I happened to choose it and then go through it. My ultimate choice was in business administration though.
Then I turned to banking industry and pursue a degree in accountancy, thinking that it is my forte (because I can deal with numbers rather than words) but it does not turn out to be very true...or is it? Or perhaps I just dislike the inflexibility of accounting and banking? Why 1 + 1 must be equal to 2? Why can't it be equal to 11 or none (because they are just 1 apple and 1 orange)? Inflexibility irks me. It provides me with no rooms for possibilities.

But seriously it is not going to help if I were to go through another career switch, though I can say that I am more than brave enough to do so. But I guess I will go crazy having to start from scratch again.

And for a moment (again???), I started to give myself a pat on the shoulder for being such a brave spot to go through a major career switch from a social worker to banking and to accounting. It was not an easy choice when you see your peers advancing in their career ladder and you are still hanging loosely at the bottom of the ladder.

What legacy can I leave behind when I retire? A question that has always been in my mind...


A good start for beginners

Was hooked on this magazine for the last few days - Financial World. It is a good one for those who are beginners in finances whithout being put off by the usual financial jargons. Provides the readers with a good grasp of what is going on in the current market and insights through all the reviews and commentaries. A non-threatening and reader-friendly magazine.



Friday, August 7, 2009

The Mind of the Strategist

Winning, or even holding your own, is only possible if you do something different. And to come up with the right "something different" takes objectivity, insight, aggressive questioning - in short, strategic thinking. Theories and concepts are subject to obsolescence, brains and thought processes are not. In today's competitive world, the mind of the strategist is an asset that constantly appreciates in value.

Kenichi Ohmae