Married in white, you have chosen alright.
Married in green, ashamed to be seen.
Married in red, You will wish yourself dead.
Married in blue, you will always be true
Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow.
Married in black, you will wish yourself back.
Married in pink, of you he'll think.
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Wedding Dress
When to marry

Traditional Rhyme
Marry when the year is new, always loving, always true,
When February Birds do mate, you may wed or dread your fate
If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know
Marry in April when you can, joy for maiden and for man,
Marry in the month of May, you will surely rue the day,
Marry when June roses blow, over land and sea you'll go,
They who in July do wed, must labour always for their bread,
Whoever wed in August be, many a change are sure to see,
Marry in September's shine, your living will be rich and fine,
If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry,
If you wed in bleak November, only Joy will, remember,
When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last.
Source: http://www.wedding-garter.com/traditions.htm#21
Wedding custom:- good luck for bride & groom (II)

Something Old
- A relative's wedding gown or using a piece of the fabric to sew into your own gown or wrap the bridal bouquet
- A family heirloom: jewelry, veil, headpiece, handkerchief
- A piece of fabric from an old childhood doll or article of clothing, either sewn into your gown or used as a wrap for your bouquet.
- A locket with photos of your parents or grandparents.
Something New
- New shoes
- New jewelry
- You might consider your "something new" your dress, if purchased new.
- New lingerie or garter
Something Borrowed
- Often, this is jewelry belonging to someone close to you: earrings, a watch, pearls, etc.
- A veil or headpiece
- A brooch or hair comb
- A purse
Something Blue
- Monogram in blue thread sewn into wedding dress
- Blue shoes
- Blue underwear or lingerie garter
- Blue crinoline
- Blue nail polish
- Jewelry accents in blue: earrings, rings, bracelets, anklet, toe rings, necklaces containing sapphires, topaz, aquamarine, Swarovski crystals, etc.
- Blue bouquet accents: ribbon wrap, brooches, cameos, lockets
- Blue sash for wedding gown
- Blue embroidery on wedding gown
- Blue hair accessories: hair clips/barrettes, headband, etc.
- Blue handkerchief (for tears of joy) or handkerchief with blue monogram/embroidery
- Blue rhinestones glued to bottom of wedding shoes in shape of initials
- A Blue Temporary Tattoo - idotattoos.com
Wedding custom:- good luck for bride & groom (I)

And a silver sixpence in her shoe.
This is a good luck saying which dates back to the Victorian era and many brides will try and ensure that they have something of each in their wedding outfit.
Something Old is meant to represent the link with the bride's own family and the past particularly mother or grandmother or even most distant relations. Something old is symbolic of continuity. To symbolise this link brides may choose to wear a piece of antique family jewellery which belonged to the relative. Alternatatively they may select something from the mother's or grandmother's wedding gown. Other things that may be chosen include a handkerchief, a scarf or a piece of lace.
Something New represents good luck and success and the brides hopes for a bright future in her new married life. The wedding gown is often chosen as the new item but it could be anything that is purchased new for the wedding such as the wedding flowers or the wedding rings. Wearing a new item on your wedding day conveys the message that you and your husband are creating a new union that will endure forever.
Something Borrowed is to represent to the bride that friends and family will be there for her on the special day and in the future when help is needed. "Borrowing" is especially important, since it has to come from a happily married woman, thereby lending the bride some of her own marital happiness to carry into the new marriage. Anything can be borrowed but it must be returned afterwards. Another way to incorporate a borrowed item into your wedding day attire is to borrow a friend’s piece of jewellery. If you have a close friend who has worn the same necklace for as long as you have known her, you might consider borrowing this particular necklace for your wedding day as a reminder of your friendship. Perhaps she wore the necklace on her own wedding day.
Something Blue in ancient times is the symbol of faithfulness, purity and loyalty. Often a blue item is the garter and in olden times the couple wore blue bands on the border of their wedding attire to denote, love, modesty and fidelity. Another way to wear something blue is to include a blue flower in your headdress or theme your wedding flowers in blue.
Brides have been honoring the tradition of wearing an old, a new, a borrowed and a blue item during their wedding for centuries. Although wearing these items is supposed to symbolise good luck for the bride, they are also just a fun tradition that gives the bride an opportunity to express her admiration for a few special people in her life on her special day.
A Silver Sixpence. A sixpence was a silver coin worth six pennies in England between 1551 and 1967. It was placed in the bride’s shoe to attract wealth to her new marriage. This symbolic act may have originated with the Scottish custom of a groom putting a silver coin under his foot for luck. To achieve the best chance of financial security, a bride should put the coin in her left shoe. In modern times, a penny or other coin is often used in place of the sixpence, but there are companies that sell special keepsake sixpence coins for the occasion.
http://weddingstyle.suite101.com/article.cfm/old_new_borrowed_and_blue
http://www.ehow.com/how_2242264_something-borrowed-something-blue-bride.html
http://www.gagirl.com/wedding/wedding2.html
http://www.cyprusconfetti.com/my_traditions/whyyy.php
http://www.jewelrybyrhonda.com/webpages/weddingtraditions.htm
Sunday, August 9, 2009
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