Monday, August 23, 2010

My achievements since June 2008. FInally, this is going to end soon. Wish me plenty of luck

The Institute of Certified
Public Accountants of Singapore
Examination & Student Registry 12 Aljunied Road
#04-02 KH Plaza @ Aljunied Singapore 389801
Tel: 65 67449865 Fax: 65 67497713
The Association of
Chartered Certified Accountants
2 Central Quay 89 Hydepark Street
Glasgow G3 8BW UK
Tel: +44 (0)141 582 2000 Fax: +44 (0)141 582 2222

Examination Status Report
Following the June 2010 session at 31-JUL-2010 your examination status is:
Paper Details Status Date
F1 Acc. in Bus. Exemption JUN 08
F2 Man. Acc. Exemption JUN 08
F3SGP Fin. Acc. Exemption JUN 08
F4SGP Corp & Bus Law Pass JUN 08
F5 Perf. Man. Pass DEC 08
F6SGP Tax. Pass JUN 08
F7SGP Fin. Rep. Pass DEC 08
F8SGP Aud. & Ass. Pass JUN 09
F9 Fin. Man. Pass DEC 09
P1SGP Prof. Acc. Pass JUN 10
P2SGP Corp. Rep. Pass JUN 10
P3 Bus. Ana. Pass JUN 10
P4 Adv. Fin. Man. To be attempted * optional 2 from 4
P5 Adv. Perf. Man. To be attempted *
P6 Adv. Tax. To be attempted *
P7 Adv. Aud & Ass. To be attempted *
  

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Appraisal with boss

It was a fruitful and heart-to-heart appraisal with my boss. 

She has became more humane, more understanding and more empathetic towards our situation. A boss, who is gradually putting herself in her staff's shoes. No more of "If I can do it, why not you?" Perhaps, the high turnover rate makes her re-look into her management style. 

Throughout the session, she kept telling me "Be careful with your movements nowadays. Take good care of yourself. Don't be like me, so careless." I was thankful for that but at the same time, felt sad for her. 

"Do you know you write very well?" that was her 1st comment.

"Huh?" was my reply. "I know I write better than I speak," I told her. "But seriously I don't deserve the "very well"" I thought to myself. 

I was very happy to have that compliment. Because I have always been trying very hard to improve both my communication and writing skills. Getting such a compliment, you know is an effort paid off and it motivates me to work even harder.

"You do things very fast but careless as well," was her next comment. "Gasp," I thought to myself. That was not the first time I heard that. My husband has always been penalizing me for that. "You never check your work before you submit." And well, I know whenever he says that, I will get a scolding. 

"But well, I guess because you are not a detailed person," she continued. 

"Yes, I agreed." I am not a detailed person. For years, because of my job nature, I have been trying hard to be detailed, to be meticulous. And being detailed is always a chore for me. On one hand, you want to get the assignment out as soon as possible, but on the other hand, you know that your job nature does not allow you to submit an assignment just like that - without much details, without much information. That is why, it often irks me when my superb detailed boss, wants an assignment to be changed again and again and again. It really pissed me off. That is also why, my husband did most of the planning for our wedding. Well, he is more detailed than me.

That marks the end of our appraisal, a 1 1/2hr. Though it is long, you know you get something out of it.
I would like to take this opportunity to show my appreciation to a young lady. Out of kindness, she helped me, a preggie to get a seat from a train, but in turn was scolded and shouted at by a young Indian man. I felt very bad for her and was aghasted by this young man's behaviour. 

This happened on 17 Aug around 130pm on an East bound train at Bugis Station. I was standing in the middle of the train, hoping that someone will give up their seat to a pregnant mum, but to no avail. I was neither surprised nor disappointed. Because taking public transport as a preggie for many months, I have never come across anyone who once offered their seats to me. Even so, I had to give up my seat to an elderly or a preggie whose tummy is bigger than mine.

It was at Bugis Station that someone finally left his seat and I was delighted. It was a reserved seat. At that moment, a 20+ year old Indian man rushed towards the seat. This young lady, out of kindness, tapped on him and asked him to give up the seat to me. 

"Why did you tap me?" shouted the man. 

"I wanted you to give up the seat to this lady. She is pregnant," replied the shocked lady.

He turned around and looked at me, but does not seem convinced and proceed to the seat. 

"What an embarrassing sight," I thought to myself and I told the young lady to "Let it go, I am fine. No point fighting with him."

In a rush, I forgot to ask for her name but this act of kindness gives pregnant mother like me a hope. A hope that, we do still have kind souls who are willing to stand up for the less privileged.
Once again, thank you to you, young lady.

From a very grateful mum.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Searching for a suitable milk powder for the mum and baby

Advice from the doctor - choose a milk powder with high omega 3 & 6 and DHA.

Importance of music during pregnancy


We have developed a habit to listen to classical music to sleep during the pregnancy period.  According to research, listening to classical music provides a soothing effect for the baby. It makes the baby feel more relaxed and also the mummy and daddy. Babies are more accustomed to rhythms  which is what makes classical music suitable. And that is the reason why if you put your baby close to your heart, it will fall asleep very fast. This is because of the rhythmic heartbeats of the adults that makes the baby feel relaxed. 



Samples we received from the clinic




The sketchbook

By the way, here is the baby's sketchbook, detailing every parts of its growth. The front page is reserved for its photo.